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Trilby Jane Bernstein

Our beautiful Trilby Jane Bernstein slipped from this earthly realm February 15, 2019. Trilby Jane had an eclectic childhood filled with the love and care of many relatives. Her parents Duncan and Mary Ann cheered her through every soccer, tee-ball and basketball game. They applauded all of her school programs and dance performances. They took her on frequent fishing trips and sojourns to visit family in California.  Her Grandma Flores taught her many early lessons including how to roll out tortillas and to close her eyes and pray during scary parts of movies. Her Grandma Bernstein brought her along on countless adventures “on the open road” and to every cultural event imaginable. Her Aunt Justina  carted her to coffee house concerts, music festivals and out-of-state explorations. Her sister Mariah was her constant childhood companion, conspirator in mischief and covert co-cheater in Scrabble. She had multitudes of cousins, aunties and uncles who helped her celebrate birthdays and holidays. Mid-way through her life, Trilby got the gift of her little brother Rome whom she loved to hug and encourage. Trilby had the soul of an artist and felt keenly the world’s injustices.  She had a witty sense of humor and often used it to make her loved ones laugh until they could not breathe. She strove to bring beauty to everyday life (so much so that these efforts often made her less than punctual). The last major work of  beauty Trilby brought into this world was her darling daughter Bexley Jayne. More than anything, Trilby aspired to be a worthy mother and caring example to her bubbly little bundle of joy. Trilby’s extended family, along with Bexley's father Jared and Jared's family, will help Bexley achieve all the hopes and dreams her mother wished for her.  A celebration of Trilby’s life will be announced at a later date.

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I love you beautiful, miss you dearly

Jalinda Feb 17 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Trilby Bernstein

Jalinda Feb 17 2020 12:00 AM

Missing you more than ever my soul sister.
We had so many plans that were suppose to have been accomplished together.
You were the sister I always wanted. Lol. I cherish every memory of you n hold them close to my heart... I know your here with my in spirit. But I sure wish you were still here psychically. .

Kandel Feb 15 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Trilby Bernstein

Kandel Feb 15 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Trilby Bernstein

Brittany Feb 15 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Trilby Bernstein

Charles Sep 23 2019 12:00 AM

To the family
Sorry for your loss find comfort in Jesus words at John 5:28 and 29

MN Mar 6 2019 12:00 AM

Dear Families, Please accept my most profound condolences. I cant imagine the grief you are going through at this time. There are no words, no words at all, that I can put down here which could possibly ease the pain of sadness you are experiencing. I dont know that anyones words could. Never-the-less, Im compelled to leave some words out of respect as friends of family, even those friends from long ago, do. Having only met Trilby in person when she was a toddler, I only knew of adult Trilby through public FB posts she shared with her father. Of those posts, all fun, light, and written with affection, I recognized a spirited, funny, and loving individual. 'selfies' revealed a beautiful young woman whose appearance seemed just as shiny and bright as her spirit must be. I have no warm quotes or words of experience or wisdom to offer which could diminish your sorrow. I only know that learning of Trils passing has saddened me and reminds me, once again, how precious and important the bonds between families and friendships are.

C Hauser Feb 25 2019 12:00 AM

Barbara - I am so sorry for the loss of Trillby. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sue van Uitert

Sue Van Uitert Feb 24 2019 12:00 AM

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Trilby< such a beautiful lady and in the prime of her life. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

Karen Stratton Feb 23 2019 12:00 AM

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